Friday, January 29, 2010
Surrogate meeting off
I hadn't heard from R since Tuesday when she said she'd look for a place to meet. I was getting worried, but finally just heard from her, but she wants to delay our meeting. Not sure if they are just excuses or what, but she and her husband have been house hunting and were all set to close on a house and the seller backed out or something, so she says it's just been crazy. She wants us to meet the next time we are coming back and forth to Chicago. Which won't be until March because I am completely tied up the entire month of February with plans. She's due for her current surrobaby in March, so I have a feeling we just won't be meeting any time soon. Oh well. Gives me time to do my FET and see if it works.
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Hey, sorry I have been MIA - just catching up on your blog. That is a bummer about the TS, but maybe this is all working out so you can do your FET without this other thing distracting you. OR maybe life is just crazy right now.
I read your post about moving on child free if that is the way things work out - and I totally agree with you. I mean, we are going all out here but if this doesn't work we will call it quits. Of course, we do have a child so it isn't the same, but I get what you are saying. I feel so bad for those women (and men) who have this dream and can't let it go for other things.
Best of luck - when is your FET scheduled?
That stinks. Don't you just love how we infertiles have one wait after another...sigh!
Hope the studying is going well for your test!!!
Bummer about the meeting. It's hard to know if that means you should start focusing on looking elsewhere or wait for her. I agree with kcmarie--we infertiles have so much waiting to do!
I read your post about living child free and I loved it. [I can't always comment due to our unreliable and slow internet connection.] One of my favorite sayings is "life is for the living." In my case, I think that it's a dishonor to Sarah's memory if I spend my days in sadness and sorrow. The same holds true when it comes to the 'Baby Quest'. I would never want what I do not have to control my life and who I am. You have a great perspective, Kelly, and that's one of the reasons love reading your blog.
Have fun studying and good luck on your test!
that stinks, but like you said maybe it will work out for your cycle better.
Hey, just wanted to thank you for all your comments on my blog - I've been going slightly insane the past week or so! It is really comforting to know other people care and even understand. Take care!
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